I've come to a realization... it's a real forehead slapper.. Nationalist thinking is easily born from exposure to any of the militant blogs of Kurds, Armenians and Greeks. Here's a prime example or Kurds and Armenians kissing up to eachother in solidarity of their shared hatred of Turkey. My point is this.. you can avoid being a G-d forsaken nationalist.. all you have to do is close your eyes and be ignorant to those who hate you and your country.. After all, ignorance is bliss.. You can take the red pill and be loved, or take the blue pill and be hated. Don't let anyone fool you into believing there is some kind of middle ground. The forces which are at work against Turkey, by those whose very existence depends upon Turkey, are the real propagators of the Nationalism which they so hate.
Bottom line: Hatred towards Turks breeds Nationalism.
One other important distinction: Love for one's country isn't a symptom of Nationalism. It's the other way around.